我喜欢他们如何让你对你的行为负责。打电话给你,你做错了一切,并且一直在做错事,让你到突破点。他们鼓励在婚姻和家庭内的宽恕和和解 - 说一个人已经改变了,即使他们在围栏上也是如此。有些人很棒,真的致力于帮助你恢复,对你所爱的人善待。恢复是一条漫长的道路,一个漫长的过程,一个人比*他们的成瘾可能更有问题。离开所有物质的人是一件事。识别人物受到挑战的人是另一个人。我认为应该鼓励缺乏同理心的人与家人团聚。他们需要更多的帮助,而不是你可以到达这里。成瘾是一种选择。 Staying sober is also a choice. Once you're off whatever substance you're addicted to - you still need to work on your character as a person. How you could do such destructive things to your loved ones. I'm not really sure if The Farm is helpful in this regard. But, for what they are - it's a good program. Being hard on a person is what it takes, and they do that.